Wedding Word Scramble




At a wedding emotions can not be under control. It is way too much pressure, too many people watching you, your moves at every minute. But not only for grooms is characteristic this situation, but for parents and guests too.




First of all, the most evident moment when emotions make you tremble is when you have to make a speech or even when you propose a toast. As you need everyone`s attention you feel exposed, so the result is a word scramble. You just see this coming, you feel a knot in your throttle but you can not skip this part. In some cases, the speech ends too soon as stammer ruins the whole impression.

Apart from this, wedding word scramble interferes also at vows part. When this moment comes grooms are too enthusiastic to say what they have planned. Some pairs of groom choose to repeat after the priest, in order to be sure that what they say has a meaning. This may be one of the solution for wedding word scramble or to exclude the part, just to say “I do”, as love declarations are an intimate part of a couple.

How can you avoid such a situation? Make short statements, so a short speech. You have to leave behind the suggestive tone just focus on what you have to say. Also, write down everything: you must make yourself understood, to read fluently and to have coherence in your thoughts expressed.

Furthermore, an emotive person has to work on its feelings. By this I mean that self-possession has a crucial part. Say to yourself words of encouragement and remember that the key to success is practice.

More than all these, wedding word scramble can turn from an embarrassing moment into a funny one. You can let the impression that actually you make a parody, you mock a wedding speech or toast so that both parts are satisfied: you save yourself of after that rude comments and people around will be amused as someone made a joke.

As for grooms emotions they will get used quickly, because they are the main characters for the whole event, all day and all night long. And after all people around are siblings, parents, friends and neighbors maybe, I mean people whom you know very well so it can not be difficult to speak to them. I am more than convinced that the importance of this event is over any emotions and shame. Timidity is a lost word.

As a conclusion, wedding word scramble is an awkward situation, but one that can be avoided. Not with a glass of wine or a cocktail but with self possession. Dare to do it, having confidence in yourself.

Written by , date May 15, 2010 in planning
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  1. Adrielle Conway says:

    I always had this problem and now I have to overcome it once more. But I’m gonna do it properly and I will just get over everything with a nice smile and head up. This is what I’ve learned from experience. And I was told this during a dance class. Whenever you make a wrong step, smile at the partner and get going. It worked all the time for me. Another tip I would give to let’s say shy people, apart form the ones in this article, is not to look in the mirror when you practice your speech or vows. Because when you look in the mirror, you will get the impression your face has a funny mimics that you might not like. So don’t do his. Be as natural as possible. Speak with your heart and everything will be just fine.

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