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Wedding Night Intimacy

Every soon to be married couples can’t wait their wedding night. They dream about it and they have great expectations. But also many couples are nervous and anxious and they wish that everything will be like in their dreams. Even if you have or you haven’t been intimate with your lover, this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have a romantic wedding night.

A surveys say that  a lot of couples have been sexually intimate before marriage. This doesn’t have anything to do with your wedding night. This doesn’t have to make you have the same type of night you usually have, I mean the same type of sexual relation. Your wedding night have to be special and you are the one who has to make it this way. In the case you haven’t been sexually intimate with your partner, then this is the perfect time. Your first time as a married couple should be a very special one. It might not be the best, but it will sure be special.

Here are some tips that might help you to make the night even more memorable:

• experience something new,if you have been dreaming about something, now is the perfect time to try it.
• take a break from sex, several weeks before your wedding night, so you it will feel like honey.
• if you have great memories together, you can reenact them, like the first time you were together in bed. This can be cute and it will make you feel like a beginner.
• try to be sexy, maybe you can buy a new lingerie, or you can find some fun sexual games, there are a lot of options out there.

If the wedding night it’s going to be your first time together then you should take it really slow. It can be very good but also very not good,if I can say it like this. You have to be patient and to try to discover what you enjoy and what you don’t like. Feel free to communicate with your partner  and tell him/her your thoughts and expectations. Try to be, gentle, slow and carrying and this night can transform itself in the true foundation of a fulfilling sexually and healthy relationship. In your case, this is not the time when you should discover something unusual and new, try to take you time, as I’ve said before and try to discover yourself and your partner. This is the most important thing in the beginning of a intimate relation. Give a lot of time and love to your partner and things will be great. Don’t be afraid to talk with your partner, to tell him/her what you like and what you don’t like, be honest and brave. Dishonesty on your wedding night will lead to very negative things in your marriage. Things like bruised feelings, dissatisfaction and no pleasure for many years. Communication and honesty are the keys of a good sexual relation and also of a healthy and good marriage. Imagine that you are going to live your whole life with the person you’ve chosen and if you feel shy, or afraid of sharing your real feelings with this person, your life can get worse and worse.

Here are some other tips that can help you have the most romantic and intimate wedding night:

• Take it easy: All the wedding planing process was crazy and all the rushing made you forget how calm things can be. Be loving, gentle, carrying and patient in bed, listen to your partner. In this way you will have a great strong relationship over the years.
• Make yourselves beautiful: Find some luxurious lingerie and wear it confidently. Prepare yourself physically speaking, if you feel great the it will be great. Be beautiful and confident and make your husband to never forget your wedding night.
• Set the whole scene: Create something special for your partner. You can use romantic, perfumed candles, rose petals, try to get the best light, the best position of the bed, any small thing counts. An important feature that will surely make a great atmosphere is the music. Play some soft music, or maybe your favorite music, depends what you want. It’s very important that the love and romantic feeling will float into the air. Try to make your partner to feel like a queen or a king.
• Upgrade your bedroom: If there is a hotel in your wedding plans, then try to choose the honeymoon suit, or a jacuzzi suit. If this is too much for you then just rent it for this night.It will surely be amazing. If you want something special, you have to make it special, a beautiful place will mean a lot.
• Your privacy matters: Be sure that when things get better no cell phone rings or nobody knocks on the door. Use the DO NOT DISTURB SIGN, turn off your cellphones and turn off the hotel phone.This is your wedding night and nobody should disturb your perfect night together.
• Make your own toast: Probably you’ve heard a lot of toasts during the wedding, but now is the time when you should make one. Take a bottle of wine or of champagne from the wedding reception and make your own two-party. You can  toast for the new life ahead  and also the wine can help you relax and get the atmosphere more calm.

Even though the tradition says that the wedding night is the night when the new husband an wife should get intimate, intimacy isn’t always a must. Many couples will discover that even everybody talks about the special wedding night, sometimes it doesn’t happen exactly after the wedding. Your wedding day, as joyful as it is, it’s also one of the most stressful and one of the longest days in your life. A lot of couples feel very tired after a week of wedding planning, of morning calls and late gatherings. So the best things they can do during their wedding night is share a loving good night kiss and have a good sleep together. Besides, some couples chose to forgo their wedding night on their honeymoon or on another special day. The honeymoon is on of the best ways of winning back your wedding night.

Whether you want to live your wedding night exactly when you get in your honeymoon suit or you are going to wait until your honeymoon, make sure everything is in place and that this night will be one of the best you’ll ever have.

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